About Us

Solutions Through Dialogue, Not Conflict

We focus exclusively on matrimonial and family law, providing a respectful and effective alternative to litigation. Our mediation services cover divorce, separation, custody, and prenuptial agreements, and we also offer traditional legal representation when needed.

With over 30 years of experience each, attorneys Lara Badain and Debra Crowder guide clients through complex family matters with clarity, compassion, and a commitment to lasting resolution. Led by a sitting local court judge and an attorney with a master’s degree in social work, our team brings calm, clarity, and structure to even the most complex family matters.

You deserve a process that respects your voice, your values, and your future. Contact us to learn how mediation can work for your family.

Meet Our Attorney-Mediators

Experienced in guiding families through financial and parenting decisions in a respectful, solution-focused setting.

Location: Rochester, NY
Phone: 585-256-2109
fax: 585-340-6257
email: Email Me

Understanding the Truth About Mediation

Many people begin the mediation process with misunderstandings — and we get it. It’s easy to assume that mediation means giving up control, agreeing on everything upfront, or that it’s just like therapy. In reality, mediation is a structured legal process that helps people work through disagreements with support and guidance, not judgment.

At Badain & Crowder, we want you to feel informed and empowered. As attorney-mediators, we’re here to clarify your rights, guide respectful discussions, and ensure the agreements you reach are fair, enforceable, and built to last. Mediation isn’t about being “soft” — it’s about being smart, strategic, and supported.

Our Office

A Compassionate, Understanding Approach

Take the first step toward clarity and resolution.

Over 30 Years of Experience Each